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Kids and Lent

It’s not too late!  Would you like any ideas for your children during this Lenten Season?  If so, read on.  If not, I’ll see you next time.

The Children: Lent 2021

Before you read on, however, I want to remind you that all families are different, and just because the following works for us, doesn’t necessarily mean that it’ll work for you.  I only offer this with the thought that it may give you an idea or two, if you’d like one.

Without further ado…

The 3 pillars of Lent are prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.  So I’ll break it down for you.

Prayer

The four older children join my husband and me every morning for Lauds.  I’ve written about it here.  Even though we’ve been doing this for years, most mornings the children are in a drowsy stupor.  We’d like for them to be more intentional during this time, if possible.  So we’re working on it.  The Eldest has her own breviary; it’s likely time to invest in books for the boys too.

At breakfast every morning I normally read aloud from the Bible, but during Lent, I’m reading the Mass propers and readings from our 1962 missal, this is especially beautiful because the readings correspond to the Stational Churches, which my husband reads in the evening.

If you’re not familiar with the Roman Stational Churches, you’re missing out!  They are ancient; they are holy.  Click HERE for the particular booklet that I’m talking about, which is available from Biretta Books.  (Or was available.)  NLM, however, does a great job of posting actual pictures of the churches in Rome with commentary.  Click HERE for an example.

We are also praying St. Alphonsus Liguori’s Stations of the Cross in our home every Friday night.  A few years ago my husband had ordered a bunch of those booklets from Tan Publishing.  When Friday night rolls around, the girls and I grab a copy, the boys process with lighted candles, and my husband leads the prayers in front of homemade plaques that a dear friend of mine gave me a few years ago.  It’s lovely.

Fasting

The children are all too young to do any serious fasting, but they’re not too young to begin somewhere.  Since all them are capable of abstaining from desserts and candy for 46 days, they do that.  Of course we don’t eat meat on Fridays, but that’s a given.  We do that all year around anyway.

But the older children can do more.  On Fridays, they eat plain bread for breakfast, and then during Lent, they add a day–Wednesdays.

Almsgiving

As the children don’t earn any money at all, this one’s out.

Let Us Know!

If you have any other great ideas, I’d love to hear about them.

Lastly…Need a boost?  My husband and I greatly enjoyed Patrick Coffin’s interview with Tony Roman, a restaurant owner in California who’s fighting back.  (How I wish more men would follow his example.)  His heroes are Jesus Christ and George Washington.  Watch it now, for I’ll bet it gets censored and disappears.

Book Review

What Are We Reading?

Today I’ll give a brief overview of what everyone in my family is reading. This might give you some book ideas, if you’re stuck in a rut.

Speaking of ruts…are you stuck in one? I mean, when’s the last time you picked up a book instead of your phone to read something?

For those of you who are addicted to technology and treat your phone like a god, put it down! Take a break. See if you can not touch that Thing for a whole day. (After you’ve finished reading this blog post, of course.)

Books, Books, Books

Shall we start with the youngest?

The two Little Wreckers aren’t actually able to read, so they just drop in wherever anyone else is reading a book. They are not deterred if that person is silently reading. They just plop themselves down and look on.

For example, yesterday, I wondered upstairs to find this:

As you can see, the Older Sister was finishing up Little Town on the Prairie by Laura Ingalls Wilder. The Littlest Wrecker undeterred, hopped in her chair, threw a doll down, and worked at dressing another doll. The Other Wrecker less obtrusively looked on. Eventually they did beg the Older Sister to read aloud, which she happily did.

I noticed last night, however, that the Older Sister started a new book from the Fairchild Family Series by Rebecca Caudill. Now she’s reading Happy Little Family.

How about the boys?

At this moment, the boys are all deep into the Redwall Series by Jacques Brian, again. There are some twenty or more books in this series, and we only own the first eight or nine. So every now and then the boys beg me to pick up a few from the library, which I did earlier this week. They’re currently reading Long Patrol, Marlfox, and Legend of Luke, I think.

The boys also have a few audio books going. At lunchtime, we’re listening to The Pilgrim’s Progress by John Bunyan. This is the original book–not a modern, edited version–and it’s difficult, but beautiful and definitely worthwhile.

We do own a hardcover Illustrated Classics version of The Pilgrim’s Progress and another edited version that my boys read when they were little, but I wanted them to hear the original language and be very familiar with it. This book is so important. I can’t tell you how many times The Pilgrim’s Progress is mentioned in other books.

The other audio book we’re listening to during Art and History Time is from Tan Publishing. It’s volume 4, The Story of Civilization: The History of the United States. This whole series is great and worth owning in both print and audio versions.

The Eldest

The Eldest is reading Uncle Tom’s Cabin by Harriet Beecher Stowe for her Literature class and Honey From the Rock by Roy Schoeman, which she picked up off of our bookshelves for fun.

Honey From the Rock is a fascinating read as it chronicles the conversion stories of 16 mostly well known Jews. I can particularly remember Alphonse Ratisbonne, who dramatically converted while in Rome after taking a dare to wear the Miraculous Metal. He eventually became a priest.

There is also the story of Mother Miriam of the Lamb of God, which some of you may know from Catholic Answers and LifeSiteNews.

My Husband

My husband is currently reading a Ham Radio manual and Nothing Superfluous by Rev. James Jackson, FSSP. It must be a good book because my husband enjoys pausing and telling anyone in the room all the biblical and historical reasonings behind every gesture, item, and action during the Traditional Latin Mass.

Me?

I just finished rereading two books: The Quiet Light by Louis De Wohl and In This House of Brede by Rumor Godden. Both are excellent reads. The Quiet Light is a delightful romp through history with spiritually edifying insights. It also features a sacrificial love story of a knight, thwarted by his lady.

In This House of Brede is just downright good. If you’ve read it, you know. My favorite sister is Dame Agnes because she’s so cranky and always right. Dame Veronica, the book’s Drama Queen, gets a close second, though, because I love it when her chin quivers. She’s hysterical.

And what am I going to read next?

I think I’ll read Robert Hugh Benson’s The Queen’s Tragedy, which chronicles the reign of Mary Tudor in England. I’ve never been disappointed with Benson’s historical novels.

How about you?

Have you read anything good lately?

Flashback Friday

Flashback Friday on Saturday

In spite of all the Church Scandal, life goes on.  How was your week?  Here are a few highlights from mine.

  1. I was spoiled rotten on Thanksgiving Day.  I barely had to make anything – just frog-eye salad.  And we feasted like kings and drank good wine.  God is very good to us.  And I have the best in-laws ever.
  2. The other day The Eldest was dancing around with Little Sister when, SMACK!  Little Sister’s eye met a chair.  Grandma added purple eye shadow to the other eye to balance things out.  And then we took a picture of her because she’s still so cute.  Can you guess which eye is injured and which is fake?

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Ah!  They’re putting make-up on me!

3.  The 2019 Calendars from Tan Publishing are out.  Last year they had a calendar featuring monks brewing beer and drinking wine.  For example, here’s this month’s picture from 2018:

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Can you read the quotation in the bottom righthand corner?  It’s a Medieval German saying.  “Drink wine, and you will sleep well.  Sleep, and you will not sin.  Avoid sin, and you will be saved.  Ergo, drink wine and be saved.”  Hilarious.

Anyway, this year I’ve noticed that Tan has a 2019 calendar titled, Defending Christendom.  You bet I’m going to order it.  Click HERE to see it at Tan.

4.  As yesterday was Black Friday, I will offer a gift idea for lego-loving children.  A friend of mine sent me a link to this.  It’s the Last Supper built with legos.  We don’t own it, but we do own this one, which is Fr. Leopold’s Mass, and it’s great.

If any of you do own the Last Supper lego kit, drop a line below in the comments.  I’d like to hear if it’s a good set.

5.  And finally, do you live anywhere near the Bismarck/Mandan metropolitan area?  If so, come experience the Mass of the Ages, otherwise known at the Traditional Latin Mass, this Sunday at Christ the King Catholic Church in Mandan, ND, at 11:30am.  I’d love to meet you!

Homeschooling

The Story of Civilization

Tan Publishing just released volume 3 of their Story of Civilization series.  Are you familiar with it?  No?  You’re missing out!  Mine just came in the mail a day or two ago.

Click HERE for volume 3 at Tan, The Making of the Modern World.

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Love their pictures.

Top Ten Reasons Why You Should Own All 3 Volumes

  1. This history requires no work from me.  It’s so good, I just put the audio version from Audible* on, and the children fight over who gets to read ahead in the “textbook.”
  2. In this series, the Catholic Church isn’t ignored or misrepresented.  This is a miracle.
  3. The guy in the audio version does voices.  And he’s good at it.
  4. I wish I grew up listening to this history.  (Or reading it.)  My children are spoiled.
  5. In addition to the book with sweet pictures, I buy the Timeline.  I don’t do anything with it, other than tack it on my wall.  The children then reference it when they want.  And I feel proud because I decorated my home.

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The timeline isn’t too big, which makes it manageable.  The pictures correspond to the ones in the book.

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Close-up of the timeline.  Sorry about the quality of this photo.  It’s early in the morning, and my cup of coffee isn’t finished yet.

6.  I have a friend who buys the activity book.  She says, “I love the activity book.”
7.  My husband thinks it’s so great that he listens to it in his car to and from work.
8.  There isn’t any other history book like it.
9.  Did I mention that the Catholic Church isn’t ignored or misrepresented?  Miracle.
10.  The other two volumes are awesome too.  You should own all of them.

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Volumes 1 & 2   (Volume 4 is scheduled to come out next year and will be American History.)

*I would buy the CDs from Tan Publishing, but I’m afraid I’d lose them all.  It’s a far better option for me to own it on Audible.  Although, Audible doesn’t have volume 3 yet.  I’m hoping in the next week or two, however, they will.